- when you were young (at about the same age as the young adult who is in your home), what was expected around various tasks?
- what expectations do I have for my young adult at home?
Consider how your expectations of your young adult work against key messages of
"You are capable."
"You can develop skills in this area."
"You can develop skills to keep yourself safe."
"Your efforts are connected to your success" (at least to some degree!).